I love to host parties. It stresses me out insanely, but I love putting everything together, baking, and making things for people I love. Hosting both our families for the girl’s birthdays is always a feat. From food allergies to just specific preferences, I try to have something that everyone can enjoy, without compromising what I believe to be good food.

For Shirley’s party, it was simple. There was no cake smash, or opening of presents(though we don’t push that to be part of our girl’s birthday parties anyway), and no games. It was a simple time for all of us to gather together. To celebrate this little girl who has taught us so much about life and the faithfulness of our God.

I kept the food simple to a charcuterie spread, with lots of options. After the fact, I realized I had forgotten to put out the nuts and dried fruit I had. But no one but me noticed, as there was plenty of food. Aside from what was here, I made a bison vegetable soup using my homemade bone broth. There was barely enough for a bowl left at the end -everyone loved it. I hope to share the recipe soon – though the rich flavor comes from making your bone broth.

My momma made the cupcakes for the party! They were nut-free, dairy-free, paleo toadstools(aside from the fondant covering the coconut oil icing, which most of us took off), and they were incredibly tasty. They were a perfect touch for this woodland theme, in addition to my vegan hedgehog ball, made from soaked cashews and nutritional yeast. He was a big hit! If you’re comparing it to cheese, it won’t be able to hold up, but if you view it as its own thing, it is absolutely delicious!

I added some balloons because Shirley LOVES balloons, as does her big sister. And Addie wanted some of her pumpkins to be on the table too.

Unfortunately, Shirley was pretty out of it for most of her party. We had started a new med earlier in the week to help control her seizures that had been slowly becoming more frequent again. The adjustment period has been rough on her. She slept a portion of the party, and just wanted to be held by momma for the rest.

We have been taking a lot of time to learn how to communicate with this little one. From body language to eye gaze, we are starting to pick up on things that many would miss. There is a lot more going on in her little mind than most people realize. And communication is far more than words.

Towards the end of the party, we all were able to sing happy birthday to Shirley. It was so simple, but it brought tears to my eyes. What a year it has been. She has faced more than most people face in a lifetime. But she is the most resilient and joyful little spirit. I only wish I suffered as well as she does. She is an example to us all.

Shirley’s life is so beautiful. Every breath she takes is a true miracle. Every night I put her to bed, I thank God for the chance to be her momma, and every morning I wake, I pray for strength to face whatever challenges come our way.

She may be behind in many areas, but she has come so far, and she has fought for every inch-stone she achieves. Happy Birthday sweet Shirley Rose. Here’s to praying for many more years celebrating the gift that you are to our family.